Why does man make it all about him?

Why does man make it all about him? Why do we bring up our daughters to think that marriage revolves around man? Why do we limit ourselves?

Man as he grows changes. The more he experiences the more he transforms his mind to accept that life dosnt just revolve around his needs but the desires of his heart!

Feeding and procreating seems to be the basics of surviving but there is a factor that many often miss! SECURITY! The root of all evils and good! Should man not feel insecure there will be a whole load of love that goes around! Lack of security leads to possessiveness. Everyday we battle to gain security! In body, mind and soul! In body to sustain life, in mind to find knowledge to sustain both body and  soul: stretching to find knowledge not to be the devils workshop, that can sustain body and mind together!

Self actualisation is the ultimate security I see to feel safe! If I be just carnal I would inflict havoc because all I will seek is to eat and shelter! I have accepted death as a way to give other bodies the opportunities to grow! I transend!

A girl that is made focused in looking at man as a source of her life is bound to treat the individual she lives with as a commodity! In return the male cages himself in the box he created! Of course there is danger that when you choose to chase the wind you may be lost but to others and never to self!

We seek to keep our kids grounded, but to me that is dangerous! How can one ground a soul that wasn't made to be trapped in the body! We seldom use our minds to mediate between body and the soul! The "father" is grounded, he is the past. The Son he is today, survival. And the Holy Spirit, the stretcher of visions! How can today's survival justify the events of the past and hold tomorrow to be sure as the moment is!